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I’m Ali

I’m a counsellor & psychotherapist
and I help people feel better.

I specialise in helping people who are experiencing:

Depression
Anxiety
Bereavement

to lead happier & more satifying lives.

Watch my video about how counselling & psychotherapy can help you to feel better

If you’re struggling right now I’m here to provide you with some safe, confidential space, where you can say anything you like & I will listen warmly, respectfully & with an open mind.

I want to help you to learn to manage your all your difficult feelings and experiences, so that you can feel:

happier in your day to day life
more satisfied with your relationship with yourself & your family & friends
less overwhelmed when bad stuff happens
better able to think & make smart decisions under pressure
able to bounce back from setbacks more quickly & easily than before

The best way to find out if you’d like to work with me is to arrange a chat, so you can

tell me what’s troubling you
ask me any questions you have
get a sense of what I’m like
find out if I’m someone you could talk to

Sound good? Book in for a chat here
An initial chat is FREE, so you have nothing to lose!

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Mum, Counsellor & Psychotherapist; I help people feel better, if you’d like a free chat about how I can help you, DM me now 😊

☝️Before you can change you need to learn to l

☝️Before you can change you need to learn to love and accept yourself exactly the way you are right now.

🤷‍♀️ Because what you resist persists.

✂️ When you suppress, deny or avoid difficult feelings, thoughts, ideas and experiences you are attempting to cut yourself off from parts of yourself.

😀 It’s easy to love and approve of the parts of yourself you like.

😧 It can be hard to own the aspects of yourself that make you feel sad, ashamed or disappointed.

💖But you need and deserve compassion.

🪞 And the person you need it from most is yourself.

🌱 Positive emotional change begins with self-love.

🌈 If you’d like some support working on that, I’d love to find out if I could help.

🗣 Let’s chat - we can take a whole hour to think about what’s going on for you, you can ask questions about how I work and you can find out if I’m someone you could really talk to.

👥 There’s a range of ways we could work together:

🌹 1:1 therapy
💎 Restore 12 Week Group Course for Overwhelmed Mums
🔧 Mental Health MOTs
⭐️ My free FB group @mentalhealthspaceformums

👩‍💻 If you’d like to book in first that free chat
click this link now:

https://tinyurl.com/FreeInitialChat

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🤦🏻‍♀️ Fuck-ups ARE inevitable & CAN be

🤦🏻‍♀️ Fuck-ups ARE inevitable & CAN be useful BUT when you find yourself making the same mistakes over & over, seemingly unable to learn any kind of lesson, it can be kinda depressing, huh?

🥺 You feel hopeless, trapped in error, unable to break free.

🤷‍♀️ Why do I keep doing this to myself?!” you wonder.

😫 You feel doomed to despair.
Incapable of change.

🙈 “Why does this keep on happening to me?!”

🌈 I can help.

💎 I am trained to help you find the meaning in your stuckness.

🤔 To help you understand which belief or idea or experience has been holding you back.

🔎 To help you locate the lesson in your repeating error.

🦋 And help you empower yourself to finally learn that lesson and break free of the pattern of mistakes.

😊 Sound good?

👩‍💻 Get in touch and let’s talk.

👥 I offer everyone a free 60 minute chat.

📲 Book yours here and let’s turn our minds to your emotional liberation!

https://tinyurl.com/FreeInitialChat

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☔️ Your problems are not going to solve themse

☔️ Your problems are not going to solve themselves - but they can be managed so that they don’t overwhelm you.

☀️ You can learn to manage them so that whatever’s going on for you, you can be ok.

🌈 If you’d like some help with that, I’d love to see if I could support you.

🗣 Let’s chat - we can take a whole hour to think about what’s going on for you, you can ask questions about how I work and you can find out if I’m someone you could really talk to.

👥 There’s a range of ways we could work together:

🌹 1:1 therapy (wait-list only atm)
💎 Restore 12 Week Group Course for Overwhelmed Mums
🔧 Mental Health MOTs
⭐️ My free FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/602340900479751/?ref=share

👩‍💻 If you’d like to book in first that free chat
click this link now:

https://tinyurl.com/FreeInitialChat

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👉 There she is, in the mirror, the only person

👉 There she is, in the mirror, the only person that can really make your life better.

😔 No matter how powerless you might feel.

🤦🏻‍♀️ However down, depressed, anxiety-ridden or dispirited.

💎 That woman in the mirror knows you better than anyone, and can change everything for you, if needs be - given the chance.

😫 Now it’s possible that people and/or circumstances have convinced you that you’re no good, worthless, talentless, doomed, chronically unlucky and utterly hopeless.

💩 So I just popped by to remind you that this is bullshit.

🌰 There may be parts of you that are lying like seeds in your being.

🤷‍♀️ Seeds don’t look very inspiring at first, I know.

🤔 They seem dry and dead - utterly lifeless.

🌱 But put them in conditions even remotely resembling good enough to grow.

🌸 Between paving stones, wall crevices, wherever, and watch those babies BLOOM!

😊 It’s no different with you.

💩 Take all the shit that you have gone through and let’s use it as fertiliser to grow better things for you.

🤝 If you need help or support just reach out and I’ll do my best to help, either personally or via referrals.

👩‍💻 Let’s chat - book in using this link - initial chats are free and do not necessarily have to end with you signing up for counselling 😊

https://tinyurl.com/FreeInitialChat

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This is so true @katieabey!! whenever I have a str

This is so true @katieabey!! whenever I have a strong and seemingly over-the-top reaction to someone I KNOW it’s probably because they remind me of an aspect of myself that I’m uncomfortable with.

Once you connect to that feeling and you’re able to accept and maybe even soften a little towards yourself (and the other person) it usually goes away.

What do you think?

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🤦🏻‍♀️ Slapping on a happy face when yo

🤦🏻‍♀️ Slapping on a happy face when you actually feel crappy just makes a bad situation feel worse.

☹️ Sometimes it feels necessary - you might worry that you’ll become known as a bit of a fun-sponge if you don’t hide how you really feel.

🥳 You fear that people only want to hang out with the ‘happy’ or ‘fun’ version of you.

🤷‍♀️ And there are people like that out there.

People who can’t bear to be in the presence of emotional discomfort, so they platitude you into a psychological corner:

🙄 “Think positive!!”
🙄 “We all feel down sometimes but...”
🙄 “You chose your own reality!”

🏃‍♀️ Until you plaster on a smile, or run for the hills.

🏔 Personally, I recommend the hills in such cases.

😀 They’re quiet and they tolerate emotional authenticity quite well.

🤷‍♀️ You can’t help how you feel.

😫 And trying to avoid your real feelings only makes your mental health worse.

👀 Seek out people and places where you can be your real self without fear of reproach.

🌈 If those feel a bit thin on the ground, therapy is a great option too.

⏰ If you’d like to find out more about that, get in touch and book your free 60 minute chat.

🦋 We can talk about what’s going on for you, you can ask me any questions and get a sense if I’m someone who you could really talk to.

💖 Sound good?

👩‍💻 Use the link to book your chat now!

https://tinyurl.com/FreeInitialChat

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😳 Impending lockdown #2 sure seems to be turnin

😳 Impending lockdown #2 sure seems to be turning November into something of a damp squib.

😫 So you could absolutely be forgiven if you’re searching for ways to dump unpleasant emotional sensations.

🤯It’s tempting at to try to:

🙈 Deny
🙈 Avoid
🙈 Cover

😱Your difficult feelings but this is a bad plan.

🤷‍♀️ Why?

🚿 Because feelings need to flow in order to go.

🌱 If you don’t let your difficult feelings them flow, they grow...

💩 ...And eventually back up in your system.

⚠️ Emotional blockages are bad.

🤦🏻‍♀️ You end up feeling stuck and hopeless.

♻️ They create anxiety, depression and other psychological nasties.

🗣 If you’re feeling a bit blocked or psychologically ‘backed up’ the cure is talking and feeling with a person who’s not afraid of emotional discomfort.

🌈 Someone who won’t:

💥 Judge
💥 Advise
💥 Or tell anyone your secrets

But will:

👂 Listen
💕 Empathise
🤝 & help reframe troubling situations

👥 Like a therapist?
🙋🏼‍♀️ Like me

🤔 Sound good?

⏰ I offer free 60 minute chats to anyone who’d like to find out if I’m someone who can help them feel better.

👩‍💻 Click the link to book your chat now and let’s see if I can help you feel better:

https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/5f2ea63075d9c5da1e7185fc

⚠️ Before you hire a therapist please make sur

⚠️ Before you hire a therapist please make sure they’re qualified to help you.

🤦🏻‍♀️I’ve seen an alarming upswing recently in the number of self-appointed, completely unqualified individuals who seem to think they can do a weekend course and set up a practice.

🤷‍♀️ Don’t be afraid to really interview your prospective therapist.

❓Where did they train?
❓For how long?
❓Which regulatory body are they with?
❓Do they have an up to date DBS?
❓How much clinical experience have they had?

💖 The relationship between you and your therapist is super important - but they do actually need more than half a clue about what they’re doing to help you safely and effectively.

📣 Ok, PSA over.

🌈 If you need some support or just help finding support for someone else, get in touch and let’s chat.

👩‍💻 You can book your free chat using this link now:

https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/5f2ea63075d9c5da1e7185fc

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😭 If you’re a mum and your hiding out to cry

😭 If you’re a mum and your hiding out to cry over how unfulfilled and dog-tired you feel, you’re not alone.

🤔 If you’re wondering if you could EVER feel happier and enjoy you life more...

☔️ ....Or if there’s a way to learn how to bounce back from difficult experiences instead of feeling trapped in overwhelm...

🌈 Restore: The Empowering Mental a Health Course for Mums

Which provides:

🌹 Emotional Support
⭐️ Mind-Set Tools
🧘‍♀️ Self-Care Strategies
☝️& Accountability
(so you follow through!)

👋 Run by me: Ali, a single mum, counsellor & psychotherapist

🔥 I specialise in helping mums like you feel better, so you can create happier, more satisfying lives!

👩‍💻 To book a Zoom call to chat about the course click on the link in my bio.

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😫 If motherhood is kicking the crap out of your

😫 If motherhood is kicking the crap out of your mental health

😔 If you’re depression is making you anxious
😫 Your anxiety is making you depressed.

☔️ And you’d like to learn how to bounce back from difficult experiences & feelings (instead of feel overwhelmed by them.

👩🏾‍🦱🧒🏻👱🏻👩🏽🧑🏼‍🦰
If you like to do that alongside 5 other mums, who feel similarly to you.

💎 Mums who also periodically feel arse-whipped by motherhood (and life in general)

💖 Then you should really check out my new course:

🌈 Restore: The Empowering Mental a Health Course for Mums

Which provides:

🌹 Emotional Support
⭐️ Mind-Set Tools
🧘‍♀️ Self-Care Strategies
☝️& Accountability
(so you follow through!)

🏄‍♀️ To help you feel you can ride life’s waves
🌊 Rather than drown under them.

👋 The course is run by me: Ali, a single mum, counsellor & psychotherapist

🔥 I specialise in helping mums like you feel better, so you can create happier, more satisfying lives!

👩‍💻 To book a Zoom call to chat about the course go to the link in my bio.

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☝️There’s no such thing as an over-reaction.

☝️There’s no such thing as an over-reaction.

🙈 Seemingly ‘harmless’ things can strike terror into anyone’s heart for ‘no reason’

🤷‍♀️ It’s not funny, really, is it?

🌱 Feelings arise spontaneously.

🛑 You can’t decide what you feel and what you don’t.

🧠 Your body & your brain instantly react to your thoughts & experiences.

🤯 If those experiences have caused you to feel:

😖 Panic
😱 Fear
😯 Shame
🤕 Pain

🔥 Then your reactions will be INTENSE - but they aren’t OVER reactions - they are likely to be in proportion to your previous experiences.

🤔 People who don’t know your history might see over-reaction but seriously.

🤷‍♀️ What the hell do they know?’

😉 So...

🌈 If you want to grab control back and feel better, you need to learn to:

🦋 Feel & understand all your feelings.
🧘‍♀️ Relax your body & mind.
💖 Become self-compassionate.

🤝 If you’d like some help with that, I’d love to see if u could support you.

🗣 Let’s chat - we can take a whole hour to think about what’s going on for you, you can ask questions about how I work and you can find out if I’m someone you could really talk to.

👥 There’s a range of ways we could work together:

🌹 1:1 therapy (wait-list only atm)
💎 Restore 12 Week Group Course for Overwhelmed Mums
🔧 Mental Health MOTs
⭐️ My free FB group @mentalhealthspaceformums

👩‍💻 If you’d like to book in that free chat, PM me now or visit www.aliharristherapy.com for more info.

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😫 If you’re struggling with your mental healt

😫 If you’re struggling with your mental health
🤯 If you could do with some extra support
☔️ And you’d like to learn how to bounce back from difficult experiences & feelings (instead of feel overwhelmed by them.)

💖 Then you should really check out my new psycho-educational course:

🌈 Restore: The Empowering Mental a Health Course for Mums

Which provides:

🌹 Emotional Support
⭐️ Mind-Set Tools
🧘‍♀️ Self-Care Strategies that Stick
☝️& Accountability (so you follow through!)

👋 I’m Ali, a single mum, counsellor & psychotherapist.

🔥 I specialise in helping mums like you feel better, so you can create happier, more satisfying lives!

💻 The course will run over Zoom for now
🤔 I can deliver it 1:1 or in a small group (4-6)
🗓 We’ll meet twice a week.
⛔️ There’ll be a private FB group for extra support between meetings.
💖 No one has to share more than they want

👩‍💻 To book a Zoom call to chat about the course PM me now or email ali@aliharristherapy.com
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🤷‍♀️ I’m not sure you can afford NOT to

🤷‍♀️ I’m not sure you can afford NOT to go to therapy...

🤔 Not if you’re:

🔥 Burned-out
☹️ Depressed &/or anxious

😫 Or if your relationships are tanking

🥺 Your career is looking dicey and you just don’t see the point anymore??!

🤷‍♀️ Because all the:

🏖 Holidays
🛍 Shopping
🍸 Booze
🤪 Drugs
🏠 Houses
🚘 Cars
👄 Sex

💖 In the world won’t satisfy the need to feel ok on the inside.

👩‍💻 So if you’d like some help with that, book your 60 minute chat now - PM me to find out about the various ways you can work with me to create a happier, more satisfying life!

💻 Or visit www.aliharristherapy.com for more info.

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🌈 Good therapy isn’t just about telling peopl

🌈 Good therapy isn’t just about telling people how events and relationships have negatively affected them, because that on its own isn’t usually super helpful.

👩‍🎓 More than ‘clever’ textbook theories and interpretations, it is the relationship that develops between us that is a massive part of what helps you begin to feel better.

👥 It’s a relationship in which you will be accepted just as you are, whether you’re:

😡 Angry
😒 Sulky
🤩 Happy
😭 Tearful
🙃 Numb

🤷‍♀️ And however you are, I will attempt to understand what that’s like for you.

🤔 That may not sound very helpful or practical but it is - your emotional system is wired for co-regulation.

💎 What that basically means is that having your feelings:

💥 Acknowledged
💥 Validated
💥 Empathically received by another person

🦋 starts to heal the parts of yourself that make you feel crappy.

🆘 We are usually hurt in relationships - it damages you when you experience people as indifferent to, to or contemptuous of or deliberately withholding of your basic emotional needs.

😖 Anxiety & depression are common responses to these kinds of relational experiences.

✅ Good therapy = insight + relationship

💖 My therapy practice is full right now for 1:1 long-term work.

👩‍💻BUT if you’d like to:

💥 Book a Mental Health MOT
💥 Join my waiting list for 1:1 therapy
💥 Find out about my new 12 week group programme

Drop me a line to ali@aliharristherapy.com or visit www.aliharristherapy.com for more info.

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🤦🏻‍♀️ Sometimes it’s hard to imagine

🤦🏻‍♀️ Sometimes it’s hard to imagine feeling anything other than inadequate, whether you:

🕰 Reflect on the past.
🔎 Focus on the present
🔮 Look to the future.

🌈 The reason therapists and coaches are useful is because they are:

🚪 Outside your situation
👩‍🎓 Trained to make connections most people miss
♻️ Able to connect you to your dreams & competencies, rather than continue to focus on your shortcomings & fears.

🦋 If you’re tired of feeling depressed, anxious, hopeless & overwhelmed, why not get in touch now and let’s book an initial chat.

⏰ I offer a free 60 minute chat to anyone who’d like to ask me questions about how I work, how I can help them and discover if I’m someone they can really talk to.

👩‍💻 Click on the link below or DM me to book your free initial chat and let’s start working on helping you to feel better!

https://tinyurl.com/InitialChatWithAli

😉 Because it’s ok not to feel ok, but there’s no need to stay that way!

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👋 Here I am, in Zoom!! 🙈 I never spent so

👋 Here I am, in Zoom!!

🙈 I never spent so much time looking at my own face before!!

🤣 So weird!!

😊 Will we ever get back to doing therapy, two people in a room? 🤔

🤷‍♀️ Is it better that way, or just different?

❓What do you think?

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☝️ It doesn’t matter what you talk about in

☝️ It doesn’t matter what you talk about in your therapy session - talk about whatever comes to mind.

💎 Whatever you bring will be exactly right.

🤷‍♀️ You can’t do it wrong.

✅ If you’re there, and it takes you a few minutes to get going (or longer,) that’s cool too.

📚 Some people prep, and that’s fine.

😊 But you don’t need to.

🔎 I know this because whatever you bring will be a reflection of what’s going on with you at a deeper level.

🤔 So you can talk about pet peeves at the supermarket and find we end up talking about fears of being judged.

😉 Or maybe you’ll talk about your recent works Zoom meeting and we’ll end up noticing how self conscious you feel in groups.

🧙‍♂️ It may look like ‘wizard shit’ from the outside but here’s the thing...

🌈...It’s all in there, inside of you, and you don’t have to connect the dots alone.

👥 We can do that together.

♻️ All I’m going to do it help you notice them and join them up in a way that is useful & meaningful to you.

🦋 And that’s going to bring you some lovely, positive changes & help you feel better.

😎 Cool, huh?

👩‍💻 Want to know more about working with me?

🕰 To book a free 60 minute chat or get more Info PM me now or or visit www.aliharristherapy.com

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👋 If you’d like some help with your clusterfu

👋 If you’d like some help with your clusterfuck of emotions then get in touch now.

🌈 I offer everyone a free initial 60 minute chat, so you can find out more about you, and so you can ask questions about what’s involved and find out if I’m someone you could really talk to.

👩‍💻 DM me or visit www.aliharristherapy.com

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🤦🏻‍♀️ Mondays can be brutal so if you’d like a regular (or one-off) post-kids-bedtime chill-out, check out my free group Mental Health Space for Mums.

💖 Every Monday night from 9pm we have a mental health expert in, via Zoom, teaching us tips, techniques and exercises you can use in you every day life to take the edge off your overwhelm & anxiety.

🧘‍♀️ This week it’s Yoga Therapy with the wonderful Lou Stanion - a short intro to what Yoga Therapy is, then a lovely yoga therapy breathing meditation - just the thing before bed!

💎 Plus the rest of the week we have a wicked community of mutually supportive mums, giving & receiving emotional support, exhaling stories & having a laugh!

👋 The group is run by me, Ali. I’m a mum, counsellor & psychotherapist 😀

👀 See you in there!

Link to join is in my bio 🤩

If you’re a mum & you’re struggling with anxie

If you’re a mum & you’re struggling with anxiety & overwhelm atm and would like to find out how Yoga Therapy can help (and experience some relaxing meditative claiming techniques) come to hear @loustanion talk about & Demo Yoga Therapy in my free FB group on Monday at 9pm BST.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/602340900479751/?ref=share

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